How many of you have ever been on a road where you don’t see
anyone and I mean anyone for miles? I
recently had that experience while on a road trip to Ely, Nevada for a funeral.
As those of you know that have been following “In A
Nutshell”, my last living grandparent passed on April 1st. Being nearly 100 years old, I can only
imagine how awesome it must be for my grandmother to be free from pain, free from disease and free from a body that was holding her back in doing what she wanted to do physically. As I was driving on this highway that is named,
“The Loneliest Highway in America” to reach my destination, I had time to
notice and realize how beautiful this stretch of lonely road really is. I also had time to reflect and thought of how
many "lonely roads" does someone who is almost 100--my grandmother-- have to
endure in a lifetime?
Thinking back on history over the past 100 years, it really
is overwhelming at times to know EVERYTHING that has transpired in those years that
someone may have had to endure or enjoy during that time…
- I remember hearing stories about people--my grandfather--selling horse and animal
pelts during the Great Depression for $5 a piece to help with the cost of food so
families wouldn’t starve.
- We all know both World Wars, the Vietnam War and
several military operations occurred during that time.
- A man walked on the moon and least we forget the repeated
shuttle launches.
- Modern comforts, due to technological advance, have become
better and better…ie…radio, telephone, microwaves, car design etc.
- President John F. Kennedy assassination with several FAILED
Presidential assassination attempts
- The Beatles and Elvis take America by storm
- Pac Man, Centipede, Space invaders and the real start of
the gaming industry begin.
- Hula-hoops, chia pets, slinky, Rubik’s cube, Barbie, Play-Doh, Yahtzee and the list goes on of fun toys created during that time.
-Cell phones and internet
- Wages that were once an average of less than $5 a day or $1,825
year to an average, according to the Social Security Administration, of over $44,000 a
year.
I guess my point is…I’m sure that there are A LOT of lonely
roads in all of our lives over the years but I guess it depends on
where you want to focus your thoughts and actions. Do you want to dwell on the
wars, the poor wages or the assassinations? Or do you focus on the excitement
of hearing that a man walked on the moon? The joy you experienced the first
time you were able to figure out and get the Rubik’s cube back to its original
state? Or is your focus on the first time you heard The Beatles or Elvis
on the radio or, better yet, on your iPod or iPhone?
As I bid farewell to my family after the funeral and saw them drive north to Idaho and I west back to California on this
lonely road by myself, I couldn’t help but to think how thankful I am for my
family, my health, my friends and for my life. Yes, I have had hard times in my life as all of us do, but it all depends on where you focus your attention during those times that makes them just a little bit easier.
So next time while "driving" along and
experiencing those moments in life, remember to take time to
focus. You might just
find some beauty in it and it may just help you get through those tough spots
and reach your destination with a little bit more spring in your step and that
twinkle in your eye knowing that you conquered the “lonely road!”