Marlene Terry |
Then without
warning tiny, endearing creatures — our wonderful grandchildren — appear.
At first
it's small, how they influence our lives. But in the end they become all
consuming, perfect and obsessive, as in how often we need to see them, hug
them, and enjoy how they think, what they say and how good they make us feel. Then,
we truly begin to see life through THEIR eyes, worry over their challenges and
cheer them on even in their smallest achievements.
Andrew, 6
now, is the third in our grandson count. He is also one of the most happy,
sweet and loving boys ever born.
Autism makes
things, most of us think of as normal and ordinary, very difficult for him. But
somehow Andrew has the ability to look beyond the storm clouds to the sunny
days ahead and moves on.
Take for
instance the prayer.
Andrew |
Not too long
ago several members of our family gathered to say farewell after a weekend of
visiting and fun. Andrew was a little agitated with the goings-on, not quite
understanding what was about to occur. It was then it happened. With his little
boy grin he grabbed the hand of his Uncle Mike, pulling him to the center of
the room and blurted out.
"Everybody
get in a circle."
We did as
he asked.
"Now
join pinkies," he continued. "Say a prayer."
Andrew's
dad offered. "You want Daddy to say it, right?"
Andrew
looked at the faces of those standing in the circle, broadened his smile and
remarked. "No. Andrew will say it!"
And he did.
With one
eye opened so there would be no chance of him missing anyone, Andrew moved his
attention from one family member to the next, naming each one individually as
he humbly thanked his Heavenly Father for those who stood there with him that day, and then asked that
we could ALL "be blessed, too."
Following
his final "Amen," there was of course much emotion, tears of joy and
laughter. Andrew just giggled, hugged each one of us and skipped away.
Yep! No
doubt about it. Grandchildren ARE wonderful!
Take a second to watch the video posted on this page about Autism and Love or follow this link.
Take a second to watch the video posted on this page about Autism and Love or follow this link.
♦Hope
you'll let me share your stories and photos here at my new residence "In a
Nutshell." Email me at nutshellstories@gmail.com.
I loved the story mom! it made me cry!! you really have a way to make others see what you experienced!! love you! Lor
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