Marlene Terry |
The 1st
this year was on a Friday. That day I rested a little from our Halloween fun
and began putting away all those things that were black, orange, and spooky.
There's
something a little sad about putting away decorations.
... You
know it's true.
Because
every wonderful and/or memorable happening that occurred during that particular
time will surface as you wrap up and store away those festive objects.
... It will also cause you at times, to laugh, cry and even vow to do better the next year.
... It will also cause you at times, to laugh, cry and even vow to do better the next year.
Even though it was late in coming, I decided to go all out again this year.
My efforts have been getting less and less for most holidays as I've aged and pooh-poohed away the thought that it's all the work you do that makes or breaks those wonderful days.
My efforts have been getting less and less for most holidays as I've aged and pooh-poohed away the thought that it's all the work you do that makes or breaks those wonderful days.
"The
less I put out... the less I'll have to put away," was my
mindset.
So we
breezed through Halloween and Thanksgiving a year ago without anything except a
Jack-o-lantern outside the front door to herald the time of the year.
... It was
also really easy just to turn the pumpkin around, hiding the carved face and
add a gourd and a dried cornstalk to be ready to celebrate the upcoming
November holiday.
... Smart
and pretty clever, some told me!
It was just
a few weeks ago, already half way into October, that I had decided I
might as well follow suit.
"We
don't need to carve pumpkins or put out decorations," I thought.
"It's just too much work, and there's not enough time left
anyway."
Then my
little grandson paid me a visit.
Wide-eyed
with excitement, he could hardly wait to present me with a
little wooden Jack-o-lantern he'd made with his Mommy's help.
"It's just for you Nana," he said sighing and wiping his little hand across his forehead ... "It was hard!"
"It's just for you Nana," he said sighing and wiping his little hand across his forehead ... "It was hard!"
Then he
rattled on, telling me he'd made another for a sweet aunt of his.
"It
has a mustache," he said.
It was also
apparent that if he had his way ... he was going to make more, and give them to his preschool teacher 'Grandma Nancy, because she's really nice," Pop-Pop, his mommy and daddy, his sissy
and of course, his friend, Benjamin!
That's when it hit me. A profound lesson taught by an enthusiastic little 4-year-old with wisdom beyond his years.
...
The effort we put into things to make others happy, no matter how difficult it
is, who we are or where we are in our lives ... is ALWAYS worth it.
...
After days of keeping it out, I'm finally wrapping up that little aforementioned Jack-o-lantern for storage. ... And yep! I'm crying as we speak!
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