Kindness...the ability to be friendly, generous, considerate, gentle and loving toward others is one of the most important qualities a person can posses. Recognizing the needs and feelings of others before the concerns you have for yourself is a gift. One of the many gifts my eleven-year-old nephew, Gabe, possesses! Gabe, son of Richard and brother to the darling Andrew that my Mom once wrote about, is one of the most kind young men I have ever known!
Recently, while Gabe's parents were out of town, I was able to watch Gabe and Andrew for an over night stay. Much to my delight, they enjoyed having me at their house with them almost as much as I enjoyed being with them! Two cute, sweet boys that my Dad lovingly refers to as the "fluffy bears"...I'll have to save the explanation of their nickname for another Nutshell! Gabe, being the oldest of Richard's two boys, is a stereotypical first born who takes his role very seriously. While his Mother Iolanda was away, Gabe made sure that he checked off all the instructions she gave him...paying attention to EVERY detail she asked of him ...most especially the care and well-being of Andrew...let me explain...
After getting Andrew on the bus, while walking Gabe to his own bus stop the morning after our fun sleepover, Gabe and I discussed the afternoon scheduling. I related to him that on that particular day of craziness, it was very likely that he would be dropped off at home by the bus before my daughter and I would be there to spend time with him. After my explanation and in perfect first born fashion, Gabe's biggest concern was who would be waiting for Andrew when he got off the bus. As Andrew's bus drop off time normally exceeds by an hour Gabe's drop off time, I reassured my sweet nephew that I would be there long before Andrew got home! "No need to worry Gabe, and please don't wait for Andrew outside...it's suppose to rain and I'll be here long before you'll need to do that...have a good day at school!"
I'm happy to say that I've witnessed all types of acts of kindness...some as monetary as the begger-turned-doctor in the video I shared...others as simple as a brother, who waited patiently in the rain to comfort his younger sibling! Kindness has an overwhelming effect and truly, has no limits! Just as Aesop said, "no act of kindness, no matter how small, was ever wasted!"
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